🎬 What Can Knives Out: Wake Up Dead Man Teach Us About Leadership?
Leadership is not about being consistent. It’s about being congruent with who you are — even when it’s uncomfortable.
🚨 SPOILER ALERT!
Wake Up Dead Man: A Knives Out Mystery is built around deception, crime, and moral ambiguity.
But beneath the mystery lies a deeper question:
Who are you when everything tempts you to betray yourself?
This is not a film about “good vs bad.”
It’s a film about alignment — or the lack of it.
Through the priest, the accused, and Glenn Close’s character, the film explores how leadership collapses when people lose connection with their purpose, their values, and their inner truth.
⛪ The Priest — Consistent, But Not Congruent
The priest represents authority, morality, and certainty.
His words carry weight. His role commands respect.
And yet, something is broken.
He is consistent in his discourse, but not congruent in his being.
He speaks about values, but doesn’t embody them fully.
He preaches morality, but avoids self-reflection.
He holds power, but is disconnected from humility.
This is one of the most dangerous leadership traps:
Mistaking role consistency for inner alignment.
When leaders stop listening to themselves, stop being authentic, morality becomes performance.
And when purpose is replaced by image, leadership becomes hollow — even destructive.
⚖️ The Accused — Congruence Under Pressure
The character suspected of the crime holds no authority, no protection, no power.
But under pressure, something remarkable appears: congruence.
They don’t adapt their values to survive.
They don’t betray themselves to look innocent.
They remain aligned — even when it costs them.
This is leadership without title:
Being the same person internally and externally — regardless of circumstances.
At LeaderNess, this is what we call leading from force: Authenticity. Coherence. Inner truth.
When fear rises, this character doesn’t perform. They stay connected to who they are.
♟ Glenn Close’s Character — When Power Replaces Purpose
Glenn Close’s character is powerful, spiritual, intelligent, and strategic.
But she is deeply disconnected from herself.
She leads through:
hidden agendas
subtle manipulation
fear of exposure
She is consistent in control — but not congruent with any deeper purpose.
This is fear-based leadership refined:
When leaders protect image instead of truth.
When power replaces meaning.
When control replaces connection.
And eventually, the cost appears:
Distrust.
Isolation.
Collapse.
Because leadership without inner alignment cannot sustain itself.
💡 The LeaderNess Model — Authenticity Under Fire
Wake Up Dead Man is a lesson in leadership under moral pressure:
🔹 Find
Fear-based leaders lose connection with who they are.
Force-based leaders stay rooted in their inner truth.
🔹 Feed
Fear feeds control, secrecy, and self-justification.
Force feeds purpose, humility, and self-honesty.
🔹 Fuel
Fear fuels fragmentation and collapse.
Force fuels trust — even when outcomes are uncertain.
Leadership isn’t tested when things are easy.
It’s tested when temptation, guilt, and fear show up.
✨ Final Reflection
Wake Up Dead Man reminds us of a core leadership truth:
Consistency keeps systems running.
Congruence keeps leaders alive.
True leadership is not about never failing.
It’s about never abandoning yourself.
When leaders disconnect from who they are, everything else eventually unravels.
Authenticity is not a luxury.
Purpose is not optional.
Congruence is the foundation.
Especially when no one is watching.

